Fattening others

My girlfriend is aware of my preference to feed a partner and encourage them to gain weight. She has mostly just ignored it and hasn’t really engaged but has occasionally made a comment during sex about her big belly (which definitely isn’t big).

Would it be inappropriate for me to give her a gift of a certain amount for every pound gained? My initial thought is $50 per pound which I’d reward her with for every 10 lbs gained. Maybe increase the amount after the first 10 lbs so $500 for 10 lbs, $1,000 for the next 10, etc.

Depends. Do you want a transactional relationship that depends on you being a cash cow?

Also, this seems to me like an attempt to build soft power over her. If she is desperate for the money she might decide to gain without wanting it.

That’s a fair point. I guess I’m just trying to find a way for this kink to work for both of us because it’s not really working without it.

She does have some submissive tendencies which was why I thought this might work. The feedback I’ve gotten here makes me think not though!

cant really get the kink to work for yall both if ur essentially bribing her w/ money, it could only work if she is willing to put in the effort and has some interest in it other than that dont force it

Honestly not really, but to me the pay pig fetish is something I will never get my head around.
Of course it is a different setting but still, it doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship idea.

I think for in the fat fetish world. There are 3 realistic senarios. Of course depending on age but being a man in 20-30 year

- get a girl my be not the skinniest u can find and love her the way she is, stay with her for live if she is not naturally very skinny u have a good change to end up with an at least overweight or obese women by age of 40 61-69% are overweight or obsese in the US around 50% in Europe.—> works if you don’t have a strong fetish rather a preference

- if you can’t live without the chunk get a big girl in the first place or if you are older. The chances of her loosing the weight are single digets. Probably gone gain more weight 10-20 kilos in 10-20 years. Just make her feel good about her weight. Don’t push her but let her know that you have the preference.

- finding a skinny girl that wants to get fat is very rear. So I wouldn’t to any Typ of trading weight for money. If you have a gril that want to get bigger for u of course u need to keep her happy in regards of paying for new chlothes and stuff like that. —> classic feeder stuff.